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Three days from now, on 27 June 2018, is Vat Purnima, which is also called Vat Savitri. On that day, which happens once a year, tens of thousands of married Hindu women, mainly in western parts of India, will keep a fast and come out dressed in lovely saris. Seven times they will go around a banyan tree to tie a white cotton thread around its trunk. They will put fruits and flowers in banana leaves and light joss sticks at the foot of the tree. They will put a tikka on the tree, and if there’s more than one woman around, they will put tikkas on each other. They will do an aarti of the tree, as they pray for the same husband over many lifetimes. They will ask for devotion through this symbolic set of gestures. In essence, they will be praying to learn samarpan, meaning surrender.
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In the days of the Mahabharata, a king’s daughter named Savitri, forced by circumstances to find a husband for herself, identified the right candidate: Satyavan, a blind king’s son. But there was a catch. It was predicted that this man would die exactly a year after his marriage. She went ahead anyway. Near the end of the year, she took a vow to undertake a severe fast for three days, and, wanting to be vigilant, ignored even her sleep. They all told her she was being too hard on herself, but she wasn’t going to listen to them. On the day itself, Satyavan inexplicably threw up, turned pale and weak, and then passed away. She calmly placed his body under a banyan tree and waited there for the arrival of Yama, the God of Death, to take her husband’s soul away. Yama came, took possession of the dead man’s soul, and headed back. Savitri followed Yama on his return journey and began singing praises to her husband while appealing to the strength and sense of fair play of Yama himself. Long story short: so impressed was Lord Yama, that he granted her some wishes, and she somehow manoeuvred things to get her husband’s life back. Legend has been very helpful to her reputation, so much so that whenever a wife offers unflinching support to her husband, she is called a Sati Savitri.
The steadfastness of Sati Savitri is exemplified in a wonderful song written by Bharat Vyas that Lata sang in a film outlining the lady’s life, ie Sati Savitri (1964): Jeevan dor tumhi sung baandhi, Kya todenge is bandhan ko jag ke toofaan aandhi re aandhi.
Not all the women singing songs listed below belong to a specific religion. Devoted wives exist in all faiths. Nor are all these women shown married in their films. But if they aren’t, they are certainly getting ready to become excellent wives and face the vicissitudes of married life. That’s because surrender and devotion do form the basis for these songs, as is clear in the lyrics at some point in the song. The lyricist is mentioned with the singer:
- Pati charnan gun gaoon (Munshi ‘Dil’/Khursheed/Shaadi, 1941)
- Tu pyaar kare ya thukraaye (Rajinder Krishan/Lata/Dekh Kabira Roya, 1957)
- Ye jee chaahta hai (Rajinder Krishan/Asha/Amar Deep, 1958)
- Tumhaare sang main bhi chaloongi piya (Shakeel/Lata/Sohni Mahiwal, 1958)
- Jahaan mein ayesa kaun hai (Sahir/Asha/Hum Dono, 1961)
- Tera mera pyaar amar (Shailendra/Lata/Asli Naqli, 1962)
- Wo dil kahaan se laoon teri yaad jo bhula de (Rajinder Krishan/Lata/Bharosa, 1963)
- Hum tere pyaar mein saara aalam (Hasrat Jaipuri/Lata/Dil Ek Mandir, 1963)
- Apne piya ki main to bani re joganiya (Bharat Vyas/Suman/Kan Kan Mein Bhagwan, 1963)
- Agar mujhse muhabbat hai (Raja Mehdi Ali Khan/Lata/Aap Ki Parchhaiyan, 1964)
- Tumhi mere mandir tumhi meri pooja (Rajinder Krishan/Lata/Khandaan, 1965)
- Maine rang li aaj chunariya sajna tore rang mein (Raja Mehdi Ali Khan/Lata/Dulhan Ek Raat Ki, 1966)
- Tu jahaan jahaan chalega mera saaya saath hoga (Raja Mehdi Ali Khan/Lata/Mera Saaya, 1966)
- Apne piya ki prem pujaran (Hasrat Jaipuri/Lata/Aman, 1967)
- Aaja piya tohe pyaar doon (Majrooh/Lata/Baharon Ke Sapne, 1967)
- Sharm aati hai magar aaj ye kehna hoga (Rajinder Krishan/Lata/Padosan, 1968)
- Ganga maiya mein jab tak ye paani rahe (Indeewar/Lata/Suhaag Raat, 1968)
- Saanjh savere adhron pe mere (Anand Bakshi/Lata/Madhavi, 1969)
- Jaise Radha ne maala japi Shyam ki (Neeraj/Lata/Tere Mere Sapne, 1971)
- Mera antar ek mandir hai tera (Neeraj/Lata/Tere Mere Sapne, 1971)
- Ab to hai tumse har khushi apni (Majrooh/Lata/Abhimaan, 1973)
- Tan man tere rang rangoongi (Neeraj/Lata/Archana, 1973)
- Tera mera saath rahe (Ravindra Jain/Lata/Saudagar, 1973)
- Mere devta main tumhaari hoon daasi (Ravi/Lata/Ghatna, 1974)
- Dil mein tujhe bittha ke (Ravindra Jain/Lata/Fakeera, 1976)
- Tumhen dekhti hoon (Naqsh Lyallpuri/Lata/Tumhaare Liye, 1978)
As we saw above, on Vat Purnima, the faithfulness of women is symbolised by strings tied to a banyan tree, as if the tree itself is the husband. This is not to be confused with someone else tying up your husband or lover to a tree. Such a thing has happened a few times, for instance in Changez Khan (1957) when Premnath was tied to a tree, with his girlfriend Bina Rai far away, initially unable to help him. Muhabbat zinda rehti hai, muhabbat mar naheen sakti, went the hero. For a change, the lady rushed to untie the rope around the tree.
Originally published in DNA Jaipur on 24 June 2018 page 13 http://epaper2.dnaindia.com/index.php?mod=1&pgnum=1&edcode=131002&pagedate=2018-06-24
Featured image on top: Saira Banu in Sharm aati hai magar aaj ye kehna hoga